Relationship Check-In (Monthly)

The Connection Check

  • On a scale of one to 10 how connected have you felt to me this month?
  • What made you feel most connected to me?
  • What made you feel distant from me?
  • Is there anything you’ve been holding back?
  • Are you feeling emotionally safe with me?

The Needs Assessment

  • What’s one thing you need more of for me?
  • What’s one thing you need less sub from me?
  • Is there anything I’m doing that’s bothering you or makes things harder for you?

The Appreciation Round

  • What’s something I did this month that made you feel loved?
  • What’s the quality of mine you’re grateful for right now?
  • What’s something you appreciate about our relationship lately?

Future Alignment

  • Are we still on the same page about our goals?
  • Is there anything about our future that’s worrying you?
  • What’s something you’re excited about for us?

Relationship Health Check

  • How are we doing as a couple?
  • What’s one thing we could improve?
  • What’s working really well for us right now?